The Literature and Narrative of Dementia


Dementia is a condition that cannot be fully conveyed through literature, but the narrative has its place in learning about and analyzing a person’s life course, which is overtaken by the clinical and medical courses.

Relationship dynamic changes

            When someone is diagnosed with dementia, their whole world is changed, and the way that they experience life is dramatically altered. It is critical to hang onto what they can do, and can remember, but it is equally important to be able to anticipate the gaps that they will not be able to fill in. Spouses will be faced with moments where their spouse no longer remembers the dynamic of their relationships, when their spouse flirts with other people, etc… You become whoever they need you to be. Today you are their cousin, tomorrow you might be their father, the next, you are an old pet.

            In addition to these changes in perception, a caregiver’s role will also be altered. If you are a spouse, you are to some degree, a caregiver. Your relationship might more closely model the parent-child structure. Some works of literature that explore dementia in this light include The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks and works by Shakespeare including King Lear and Hamlet.

The changed self

            Dementia is the epitome of an existential crisis. It is a daily challenge to what we hold dear and forces us to either confront our losses and re-grieve or to collect ourselves and move forward with the remnants of what we still have – which is more than what people think. Each case is different; while some individuals living with dementia might maintain their personality, others might be completely different than who they were before they got diagnosed/showed signs.

            This also brings into question, the Retrogenesis theory. This model of Alzheimer’s posits that once humans reach a certain point in aging, their brain and body begin to age in reverse, and we revert to the habits and mannerisms that we had as children. A study has observed inverse correlations between functional levels found in Alzheimer’s FAST stage model and the developmental age of children. For example, an individual in the 6th stage of Alzheimer’s, they have the same functional level as a one to one and a half-year-old infant.

            Those that once took care of their children become the one that needs care themselves. Retrogenesis theory helps to explain certain functional limitations that come with Alzheimer’s disease, but it cannot speak for all aspects especially with the activities that are appropriate for the age, like crafts or playing with building blocks, these activities can be adapted to be more age-appropriate. In addition, aspects of dignity are different as well, for example, calling an incontinence brief, a diaper, or calling a clothing protector, a bib.

Narrative Agency

            One aspect of the medical humanities that deserves more attention is narrative medicine. When an individual is diagnosed with dementia, discussions of the power of attorney, advance directive, and living wills pop up, while this person will want to be involved in decision-making processes. Their perspectives are often dismissed, overlooked, and ignored, which must change for dementia care to be successful.

            Caregivers need to be more open to letting the individual lead their own lives and to utilize strength-based models of care that enable and foster independence. Learning how people describe their relationship with dementia can help caregivers improve their performance and the service provided. For example, there are many illness metaphors and coping metaphors that someone might use to describe their condition like “fighting for my life” or “vanquish the beast.” Certain cultures have different perceptions of sickness, using temperature, harmony, or the biomedical model to communicate imbalance and illness. Utilizing the same verbiage as the individual living with dementia will help them to trust you, develop a rapport, and they will feel safe with you. Fight their monster with them!

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